Some people’s personal lives are so dramatic that they would interest even a TV series scriptwriter.
Perhaps the article is being read by many heartbroken people who have never been able to start a personal life and whose every romance ends in failure. Have you ever wondered why nothing works out for me when my friends and relatives have loving partners, shower them with gifts, even get married and have children? The most difficult situation is when you were loving, romantic, did not leave your partner in trouble, took care of him, and then left you as a “gift” without even giving a reason.
Psychologists say that most clients who come to therapy who have difficulty maintaining a romantic relationship make a “mistake” before they actually start an official romance with a potential partner.
There are 2 reasons:
- They think they are ready for a relationship, but they don't even realize what different feelings they have and they send exactly such an impulse;
- They think they know what kind of person they need next to them and what type of relationship they want, but in reality this is not the case.
And sometimes you simply want a completely different type of relationship and your partner has different expectations. Before you dive into deep feelings, figure out exactly what you want and what qualities you want your partner to satisfy.
Source:
https://theflatironcenter.com/relationships-never-work-out-for-me-what-am-i-doing-wrong/
