Breaking up with a loved one is always difficult.
There is no one specific formula that will fit all love relationships - no matter how many people there are, there are as many types of romances; the main thing is to be honest in a relationship and not play with other people's feelings, for example, if a woman wants to start a family and have children, and this is not included in your immediate plans, do not waste her time and energy, find your own person.
An interesting experiment was conducted - the authors of the study asked women to name the main issue that caused the end of a love relationship.
The answer looks like this:
• A man over 30 has not learned to prioritize, I have never been important to him. Friends have always been his priority! Imagine, my aunt had a heart attack and instead of taking me to the hospital, she got drunk in a bar. For 24 hours she did not send me a single message and did not read my message;
• He was too dependent on his mother, it annoyed me;
• I felt like he was not married to me, but to video games. He didn't ask for money or expensive gifts, I just expected attention and warmth;
• He was too friendly with other women, no boundaries;
• My partner didn't like the way I looked, I could feel it;
• You have no idea how lonely and helpless you are when you live with someone with poor mental health;
• Hygiene problems;
• Every date or move was planned by me - he never showed initiative;
• One day I discovered that we didn't have even one common interest or hobby;
• I lost feelings for him;
• I wasted too much time with a person with whom I simply had no future;
• We had different life goals;
• I wasn't happy with him;
• We argued all the time;
• I felt like I was the mother of a small child and actually had to take care of an adult, I was tired;
• We couldn't communicate.
Source:
https://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahdobro/reasons-women-ended-relationships
