Every person wants to be respected and appreciated.
Yes, disrespect hurts and leaves a terrible mark on self-esteem. First of all, before you start complaining, find out how you treat yourself and are you giving too much to those around you? Remember, you can't earn respect from others if you don't believe in your own goals, abilities, or ambitions.
If you recognize these signs, you are not respected:
• Years have passed, but you still remember the class clown, right? If you are talking loudly in the room (i.e., you are not talking to yourself), the interlocutor should understand your words, not laugh at you, show courtesy when entering the discussion, and at least not interrupt. No matter what type of relationship it is, always remember that it takes two people;
• If you feel that people around you are not interested in you, they roll their eyes out of boredom, and even conducting a minor dialogue requires effort and serious effort from you, just let these people go;
• They ignore your established boundaries and do not care if you feel uncomfortable;
• The person does not try to have normal communication with you, avoids confrontation as much as possible;
• They have made promises to you many times and have not tried to fulfill them even once, at least they tried.
Some reasons why they do not respect you:
• Unethical behavior;
• Dishonest attitude;
• Everything is always about you, as if life revolves around you;
• Lack of ambition;
• Explosive character;
• Inconsistent and unpredictable behavior;
• Avoiding responsibility;
• You are distinguished by narrow-mindedness.
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